Thursday, October 27, 2011

Attitude of entitlement

The few instances recently where the idea to end our relationship continue to haunt. It's not once or twice in a year. Rather, it's three or four times in a month that have wearied me. Perhaps my tolerance has deteriorated below the threshold. Or perhaps I don't feel the appreciation that I deserve. The relationship, no matter how I look at it, doesn't look as healthy and glorious as it used to.

Often I lost myself into negativity. 

I am tired.
Should I let go?

Walking together for this long isn't an easy journey. Having said that, I still cherish the rare moments of joy and the constant incoherent argument throughout the love. No matter how hurt it is, a life without you is a life wasted. Without you, I will lose many goals in my life. I am never complete. To give my 4 years of investment another chance, I just have to smile, hold back the tears and pretend everything's okay.

Being a full time lover is so tiring and now I can't stop yelling for off days. Never in my life I request for a break. For once I strongly believe that I deserve some rest to ease my mind (as if the love is torturing me), I humbly submit to you my application for annual leave. A quick trip (without you) will be great.

1) Sun tanning - Pangkor
2) Mount climbing - Kinabalu

May I? Without you?

I already know your answer before asking.

Application declined. Reason: I have to tag along.

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[Jino] - A man's not a man unless he knows how to shoot

11 comments:

  1. Take a break during your off day. Lazy on bed or go somewhere you wanna go. Watch your favorite anime...

    Stay strong~

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  2. Hang On Jino.....you had been with him for 4 years,so can be with him longer...don't break now...hang on on this 2/3 months first and see how...

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  3. twink-le twink-le little star? lol

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  4. you are not alone ^^

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  5. sasuke: that's what i intend to do, if i have the chance.

    ahmad: decision has been made ^^

    tuls: picture removed due to bad response lol

    ichi: ada free time pun jadi tak free...

    orange: every time i ask you come my house, you decline >.<

    ooi: yes i am.




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  6. Hey~ perhaps u should take a break, but not breaking off the relationship. sometimes, we may be fed up, lost, or tired. but please dun take the four years for granted. as u have write this post, means u still care, y dun u get it a try later after a short rest.

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  7. jay: to be a bf is a permanent 24/7 job. you don't get to rest till you die haha.




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  8. Hey Jino, just curious to ask. Do you still miss him sometime? :P

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    1. This ex? Honestly not anymore. It has been 4 years since we broke up, Ed. Chances given and tears shed. I had done what i could but obviously a relationship will not turn out well if WE dont work it out, together. Moreover he has a good bf now, so i am less worried.

      On another note, I am surprised you are here, in 2011 posts.




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